Helping the Homeless Advice
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I was reading a story written by another Hubber and I was compelled to write this. I have lived camping on a friends property before, by choice. We moved to a new area and until we could find jobs and a home, we chose to live this way. We had a tent and our van, a river flowed by and we were invited up to use their washroom, separate from the house, any time. We were not quite like these homeless people, as we did it by choice and had money coming in at the time. Most of these people do not. We had a place to camp, permission from the owner's to build a fire, and camping equipment. We were well off.
We all feel the urge to help people when we see they need help. It shows that we all care about others. The homeless are increasing in volume and this bothers many of us that have a place to call home and some stability. We want to help them in a constructive way, but many do not have any ideas on how to help. I know of several ways to help and would like to share them with you.
I would also like to point out that all homeless are not helpless or benign. A good way to help a benign one or just any of them is to ask a police officer. They will steer you clear of the ones you should stay away from and some of the officers will deliver a bag or two for you. This keeps you safe and alive. Some of them will rob you and some will just flat kill you.
Some cities and counties do not put up with homeless people. They will run them off or arrest them for vagrancy. The police can not be counted on to help you in these areas. There are always people who work among the homeless though and locating one of them is sometimes quite hard. It is worth it though when you do because they are a fount of wisdom in finding out what the people really need and how best to help them. Your route could be as easy as donating to a shelter or as complex as volunteering in one.
Food
Food is one of the big issues. If they have no home, they do not have a refrigerator. They do not have a stove and might not have a place they can start a fire to heat their food.
This makes buying food for them difficult. Many fast food chains have gift cards for varying amounts. Buying a $5 gift card is a good way to get food for them. They can use it when they are hungry and get a hot meal or something off of the dollar menus. They will be able to sit inside for a while out of the weather while they eat. This can be very good during a thunder storm, snowstorm, extreme cold, or extreme heat. They can get water with ice in it to cool off. They can get a cup of coffee to warm up. It gives them many things which are normal for us but a moment of luxury for them.
Going to the grocery store and picking up some non-perishable things for them to eat and drink is also a good solution. Remember, no refrigerators. Canned foods are the best. Try to find things which can be heated but can be eaten without heating. Pop-tops are good as they may not have a can opener either. Tuna, vienna sausages, crackers, fruit, any type hiking food, and canned chicken are all options. Cheese crackers, peanut butter, and more crackers. The drink mixes that go in a bottle of water to be shaken up are welcome. Do you like to drink just water all the time? Containers of nuts, dried fruit, raisins, cereals which are high in flavor, low in weight, and have a good vitamin count are also good. They can be eaten right out of the bag. Vegetable juices in small cans are welcome. We also want to try to give the basic food groups, this helps keep them healthy. When they get sick, they are more vulnerable.
Clothing
Clothing which is seasonally appropriate is also appreciated. How would you like to have only a flannel shirt or thermal shirt to wear during the summer. Or a light cotton shirt in the winter. There are enough thrift shops in most towns to find something inexpensively. We also go through our clothing each year to find things which don't fit or we are just too bored with. I have a teenaged daughter who is still growing, we lose weight or gain weight. Give these clothes to people in need. Don't give too many to each person, a couple of shirts each. Spread them around, there are plenty in need and they don't have anyplace to store these things. Something to wear while they rinse something else out and let it dry is good though.
Blankets are welcome. Padding to sleep on in summer and warmth to curl up in during the winter. I have bought some nice blankets at yard sales for $1. If the people know what you are doing with them, they will usually give them to you.
As seen above, shoes and socks are a big deal. It is not easy to figure sizes. Too small does not work. Too large is not easy to make work. The only way I know is to ask them. That is why I work with one person.
Hygiene
Keeping clean is hard when you don't even have a bathroom. The needs for where these people are staying is variable. I know that if you are camping out in the woods next to a creek, you will be able to keep cleaner than if you are wandering the city streets and alleys.
Bars of soap are best for washing up. Liquid soap is really nice but it doesn't last as long. They can wash anything with it, from their faces to their clothes. It is also smaller, and lighter. Sample size bottles of shampoo, deodorant, toothpaste and whatever else you would use camping. Small hairbrushes, combs, and disposable razors. If they are clean, they do not get run out of fast food places, Wal-mart or grocery stores as fast. These are the places where they go to get out of the weather. I buy toothbrushes at dollar stores for very little. They come in big packs of 6 or 8.
Financing
The amount that you spend is up to you. Do not get carried away or you will be in trouble. Decide on an amount that you can afford and stick to it. Many people are helping these people and it won't help anyone if you help yourself out of your home. I personally have a $10 a month limit. I just do what I can. It is appreciated by the man I help. I help the same one all the time. You may choose to help different ones. I even helped him get a job. I heard of something that he could do and tracked him down. He is now working 20 hours a week. Not as much as we could wish but it is helping. He can get to the laundromat and wash his clothes, buy some food of his own and is moving up. He is camping now, in a tent he was given, on the property of his new boss.
Summary
Helping those in need is necessary in order to preserve our humanity. Help where you can but be careful and try not to get hurt. Do not sacrifice your own health, home or life to help. Seasonal help is the best help. Helping them stay clean, fed and healthy is the most important. These may be their way out. Don't give them money unless you know the person well enough to know they are not going to buy alcohol or drugs. Many will and that is why they are on the streets.
I have lately had a couple of friends point out to me that alcohol and drugs are something that people who are homeless, look forward to. Also, the street is no place to detox. I leave it up to you to decide this for yourself. The decision to give them cash, alcohol or cigarettes is a personal decision. Give it thought and see if it bothers you.
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More good reading on the homeless issue.
http://jasonmarovich.hubpages.com/_3mcrjp1v01jkh/hub/The-Homeless-Man-and-His-House
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Yes I think this is important even more so starting next month when many families will be cut public assistance with money, and food, as well as federal grants are being taken away from non-profits that hand out food, supplies and clothing. Fortunately there is no help with rent, mortgage, and the shelters are being cut grants as well. There is not affordable housing, and not enough shelters if there are any. Fortunately not enough jobs for everyone at the moment, and even if they would like a job, they are just not there. The government knows this, and cutting the money that helps these people too. Fortunately there will be no help if there is not jobs or non-profits, or assistance to help them.
My heart just aches when I see a homeless person. A safe shelter is a necessity, not a want and should be enjoyed by everyone. That photo of those poor feet makes me cry. And here in America, people trash items that could save a homeless person or bring them comfort. There are so many ways to help, even if they seem small to us. Your Hub is so on target and I hope many read it and act in compassion and love.
such a nice hub....
I hope you don't mind, but I linked your hub to mine...
here: http://rutheddavid.hubpages.com/hub/What-is-the-me
I really think what you have written captures the reality behind the plight of the homeless ones.
Keep writing! :)
This country throws away enough so that if it were to be given to a real charity that gives back and not to the Corporate established so called "non-profits," there would be enough to go around. Walmart throws out enough food just from their bakery and deli to feed an entire city of homeless people. Sure they need to sell but there has to be a way for the food to go into a soup kitchen etc. why does the government give people food stamps then whine that stamp recipients are breaking the country. Half the people that receive food stamps would get off food stamps or not need as much, if they could receive bread and other items that are perfectly edible and instead go straight to a dumpster, only because they didn't get sold after 2 or 3 hours. That is just wrong.
Great hub well written and thought out with good advise. I follow most of your guidelines but I'll give money for drugs or booze as I see the street no place to detox.
Peace dust
Becky, I too wish food and clothes was all they need, sadly it isn't and those in need of a fix or fall out shaking in seizure on the hard ground I cannot pass helping that not happen, an addict has a hard life, dust.
Becky it's good that you've written this Hub about the homeless. I get sick when i hear people say that a homeless person is lazy and doesn't want to work. I give hoping they will use the money for food, but sometimes i know they head straight to the liquor store, but i can't pass up a needy person. When you give to organizations, they take their share first. I know the Salvation Army helps the homeless, their beds are full every night here.I used to take my clothing to consignment shops for resale, i don't do that anymore. We have a place here in my town called ' The helping hand ' That's where i take my things. Thank you for sharing your tips/story.........
Thanks for this excellent hub. You provide some excellent advice that is very down-to-earth and do-able. Another difficult thing for me is when I see the homeless with animals (usually dogs). The pets most often look in better shape than the person. I find it easier to give to someone who obviously cares about others, even animals.
Becky as soon as I opened this hub those feet kicked me right in the heart.
This is a very useful and worthwhile hub, it is not always easy to know how to help these people or to know which will will benefit from help and not go straight to the booze shop.
I too have linked your hub and that of rutheddavid to mine. Between us we should be able to get the message across that it doesn't take an awful lot to give a little help to the homeless, we can all of us do our bit.
Your article about this ever present issue of our times is well presented and 'reaching out', it is very useful, thank you:)
Wonderful reminder Becky and great tips and thoughts to help ones in need. You did a wonderful hub here.
Thank you,
Sunnie
This is a great hub! In these difficult financial times it's getter harder and harder for some people to afford shelter, food and clothing. Thanks for sharing your good ideas for helping homeless people.
Go Becky, Go Becky....doing the Macarena here.....then off to vote.
You are awesome Becky..we love you so much..I hope you win..I voted already! Best of luck!
This is fantastic Becky! Please tell me where do I go to vote?
You already have my vote Becky. This was a great, very worthwhile hub. Hope you win
Congratulations Becky on your nomination on the Hubnuggets! Reading your hub made me grateful for everything that I have and in turn share in anyway I can to those who need it. These tips are truly helpful and useful.
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I'm really loving how practical and down to earth this is while remaining compassionate and helpful. With the state of the economy the numbers of homeless can only rise. Thanks for a great read.
Becky, I voted for sure and believe this is overall the best piece I've seen (on HubPages or elsewhere) for helping the homeless.
That said, I'm with Dusty on the booze-or-no-booze issue. Thankfully, I've not qualified in this lifetime as an addict but do know a lot of people who do. (Or "did", some of them being deceased now.)
Pam has told me that when she was homeless, despite nearly dying of thirst in rural south Texas at one point and having her weight below 90 pounds (from starvation, not anorexia, though she does struggle with that, too), neither food nor drink was her #1 concern. Rather, from the moment she rose in the predawn hours till she fell asleep at night (if she DID fall asleep), the foremost thought in her mind was,
"Where is my next cigarette going to come from?"
You're 100% correct that food and clothing are more essential to staying alive PHYSICALLY than drugs (including alcohol and nicotine) are, at least in most cases. But a lot of homeless folks don't care about that; better to die than not to get a touch of relief when it can be had.
I've known (and still know) people on fixed incomes (some homeless, some not) who will burn up their monthly checks fast, drunk till the money runs out, then grit their teeth till the next go-round. What they tell me is, "Knowing I'll be able to get that relief for a few days after my payday is what gives me the strength to face the misery of three weeks of Hell."
So Pam and I will give cash, when we have it and when we're not dealing with the "pro panhandlers".
Bottom line, though, this is a mighty fine piece of writing.
Voted Up (here and in the HubNuggets contest) and across except, of course, for funny.
Voyed up x4 Becky. I know how you felt. It is a feeling of being "alone" or "not wanted". Me and my wife were homeless back in 08 with no where to go. Friends turned their back, as well as my family that I had sheltered before. I had no money or car so I walked house to house asking for work. I met an elderly lady, she was 76. She hired me per say and within a week, she let us stay with her. She took us to find a job, we did, and she took me and my wife to work until we were able to rent the place I now live in. One week away from being strangers, she opened her home to us. We all hit rough times. If it wasn't for her, I wouldn't be here today no doubt. To the comments, you can't judge a book by the cover. Some people are just too high on their horse to help someone. These are the people that has had it gave to them their entire life. Gets me angry. Becky, I feel for you and the hell you went through. As me, I am sure you are stronger for it. Plus, you learn who your true friends and family are. A stranger became family over 3 years ago and for that, I am blessed. Great hub.
This subject of homelessness always leaves me a little sad, but it's a subject which must be discussed and I am glad you did such a complete hub on the subject. Every human being deserves the basics of regular food, shelter and water. Thanks for doing this. A big up on this hub and also of course, useful.
Becky,
I love this article, a subject that hits me very close to home... having worked with the homeless population in community nursing and helping to place in apartments.
I am so glad you stressed the safety factor. All of our altruism goes out the window when we feel at risk/ place ourselves in situations that are less than savory. Even in a professional capacity, we would travel in pairs or call the police if we felt danger in any way.
"Please" consider checking (everyone who reads this...) where you may have a local agency that helps the homeless. For example, when Mom died, my sister and I packed up so much in the way of dishes, appliances, groceries of all kinds (even stuff in the freezer, I drove to work in ice coolers), blankets, gosh, everything we need and you identified, Becky... and we were able to sort out/ ask folks what they wanted. I shed many a private tear when "G" appreciated Mom's tater tots and "A" her apple butter (hadn't had in years...) Please consider doing things like this as you can. It does make a difference and I thank you Becky for raising our awareness... Voted UP & UABI, mar.
Morning Becky..just stopping by to say Hello...Hope you have a wonderful Sunday..will be moving furniture today..got a beautiful bedroom suit free if I may add and it is heavy and big..but will see you later..still keeping my fingers crossed for the award..
Love,
Sunnie
Love you too..once I get this story done ..I plan on taking a break and just working on it slowly. I so want to readmore and spend time with all of you for a while..lol..I wish i could bring you the one that is sitting on my front porch that we are giving to the neighbors..lol Have a great day Beck..
I've seen homeless people in many parts of the world. As a seafarer, my heart is always filled with pity seeing them begging for food. Even progressive countries of USA, Canada and UK have all kinds of homeless people begging for money and food from us (transient seafarers) whenever we go ashore.
Humanitarian projects are everywhere, but still, we can see mendicants, street urchins and homeless roaming aimlessly out there.
Very honest and moving with a lot of good ways each of us can help. I like your writing style.
I am so so proud of you and happy for you!..Great job and one well deserved...WHOOOHOOO!
You are an awesome writer..you just needed a little nudging..you are a natural and could not have happened to a more wonderful person..
Love,
Sunnie
Hay Beccky just popping in to congratulate you. A job well done. You deserved to win.
Congratulations Becky on your win, well deserved it's an excellent article.
Congratulations Becky. WhooHoo to you!!!!!
Thank you so much for this article and I can not help but wonder if I was the Hubber you speak of in this Hub? I will link to this one and congratulations on your success!
Very well-thought-out hub with lots of useful tips on helping out people who are homeless.
Voting for a better economy, or more services for those down on their luck is also important! For now, I voted your hub Up, Useful, and Awesome.
Living in Boston and Cambridge over a twenty year period, I have seen the sad plight of the homeless. Thank you for writing this important article!
Great, great hub! :)
I live in the Los Angeles, CA area, which is widely considered the homeless capital of America, so I have MUCH experience here...
IMO the best way to help them is to give to those organizations and shelters that are designed to assist them.
In L.A. there are dolphin statues at the 3rd Street Promenade (at least, last time I checked) - a well known mall and a tourist area where celebrities are often spotted - in Santa Monica, a beach town where many of L.A's homeless live.
People put their $$$$ into those statues rather than give them to the homeless outright, b/c they know for sure that that $$$$ is guaranteed to help them rather than feed their negative habits. Folks have also bought food for them rather than give them $$$, which is also a good idea.
Hope you keep writing :)
You have done very well - lots of info, nicely written compact piece of work! Voted up! All the best in everything you do!
Liv
Hi: just a fellow hubber here and may I say that there are other things to help the homeless. First I am on the side of not changing welfare as former Pres. Clinton did when he was president. The reason is reality. If you check with HR people today and see how many people apply for a job, you'd welcome welfare as former Pres. Roosevelt had it. It isn't only work you see people need that was on welfare. Did you know that some are military veterans who just didn't come back whole from war and was getting better with living on welfare and visiting Veterans Admin. in their area? Did you know that some people did not fare well in the cycle of life having money and couldn't go to college or university to get ahead in life and they couldn't get a job? Did you know that some people were on welfare because they got old and did not have enough to live on in the first place so they ended up on welfare? Did you know that some women got raped and religion forced them to have their children and they couldn't get jobs and ended up on welfare? These are only a few reasons why some ended up on welfare in America. What to do with the people who try to make it and didn't succeed? Where do they go? What about victims of crime-I saw a commercial about a woman who lost her money and home and now is homeless because of info and id thieves? Where do all these people go? What do they do for food and living expenses? Being on welfare is for destitute people who have nothing and no one. These people rather be homeless than commit crimes and doesn't that say something about honor and nobleness? Not everyone can have a silver spoon life. You have got to ask them how they got homeless and you can begin to solve the problem of homelessness. It isn't easy to do. For compassion's sake and for humanity isn't it best to house these pitiful unfortunates in life that life hadn't been so kind to? Or do you think that they are homeless because they are lazy and don't want to work? For as you can see the reason for homelessness isn't just one reason at all. The solution was at hand and former Pres. Roosevelt had done a life saving and country saving solution that was abolished by we who voted. Therefore the solution is simple go back to what former Pres. Roosevelt had done for the many destitute and you won't have homeless people. Thanks. I'm glad you wrote this hub. Many voices are needed to solve the problem of homelessness. One thing that helps is knowing about hungersite.com and freerice.com both by the United Nations. We all have problems in this world and it's good to know people care. It is sad for even in Hawaii there is homelessness and I've seen people go to the trash bins for food and it sickens me a lot. I see homeless people old and in wheelchairs too everyday I ride the bus and it sickens me to see them. People had hope and not homelessness when Pres. Roosevelt made welfare for Americans. I hope we return to it for the sake of many who did not ever have enough money anyway, so how can you even build a retirement portfolio? Take care and it's a very good hub.
Great Hub and very useful...just watching in my part of the world how they try to relocate all the homeless from ' the centre of our Sunshine Capital City' before the World Leaders's Conference in 28th of October and I realise we do what we always do: 'Out of sight, out of mind policy'...but for how long can we do it?
Thank you Becky for writing this important piece on today's plight...I believe that the most important work any writer can do is to make readers think, feel, reflect on...and maybe..slowly...gradually change the way they look at the world around them and try to make a difference...you have done just that, thank you:)
Thank you so much for stopping by and reading the translation of the ancient Eastern European legend, it is very dear to me...it is my heritage, it is part of who I am...thank you for that...I outstretched my hand and you reached out:)
Thank you, dear Becky, your words mean a lot to me:)...will come back again for sure to check more of your fabulous hubs...love from beata
Thank you Becky.
How ya'll doing? Don't get chomped by a gator! Tell me about it. Have you ever heard of real estate backed securities or derivatives?
I live in North Florida were there are gators and I keep hearing people shout "go gators" but I do not know were they expect them to go! :)
Your Hub is outstanding! The advice you give is needful and right on target. Well done! Welcome to the HubPages Community!
ps My uncle, who passed away a few years ago, lived in Dickson. His name was Ray Watkins. A long-time Nashville session musician. I have been to Dickson several times. Nice town.
A lovely, constructive Hub. So glad i found you.
In Africa there's a belief that if a homeless person comes across your path, it is God in disguize and by helping that person, you are receiving God's Blessing.
I make it a point to look into a beggers eyes when I give them something. I silently pray "God Bless you." When a beggar says "May God Bless You", to me, I sincerely thank him or her, appreciating the gift of their kind blessing... which is all they have left to give.
Beggars often get to see the best of what humanity has to offer. The best part is when another person witnesses a heart-expanding kindness, they too are benifitted.
Absolutely SUPERB article, Becks...heartfelt and informative. You obviously have a heart of gold, and choose to address a situation largely ignored, while ever-increasing. I recall the most shocking example of homelesssness I've witnessed. I was visiting a friend in Washington D.C. for the weekend. He had to work half day on Saturday, so I did some sightseeing around the mall of the Washington monument, etc. Wandering throught streets nearby, I came into a section where panhandling was rampant, and people lived on the streets. One gentleman had a camp set up in a closed store's recessed entrance. Lean to, sterno can for heating, backpack and blanket. That was about it. Four blocks from the Capital building. And we send assistance to other countries. Shameful. But that's another conversation. Well done, ma'am!!
These people could very be any one of us.Do what you can do, please. A great eye opener.
Becky this wonderful Hub rips at my heart .. I do have that soft spot for the homeless.. thank you for sharing this hub.. and the pictures hurt.. they really do :( Frank
These are compassionate ideas and I especially like your section on Hygiene. Voting this Up and Useful.
Not many of the people who are homeless today ever had the chance to learn to survive as I did as a child. Even then we had permission to be where we were.
When I was living on the west coast I saw homeless people daily. Those who I could afford to help I did. Meals, cigarettes, clothing and money were my limits.
My step sister ended up in a motel with her four children because her husband couldn't find enough work. I moved them and put him to work for me as soon as I found out.
Two of my half brothers spent a lot of time homeless. Because they weren't trained like me it was hard on them. I spent some time teaching the youngest of the two where to go to hunt also how and where to cook what he caught.
At one time he told me when it got too cold he would purposely break the law so they would put him in jail where he would have a warm bed and three meals a day. He hated it because it meant he would not have drugs to give him the high he lived for. His life ended on the streets as a young man.
I was told any money he begged, borrowed, and took by force was always used for drugs. He would eat if people gave him food.
For almost two years now I have been taking in people who would be homeless if not for my generosity. I became a partner with the first and somehow we manage to feed and house everyone we have taken in. Even though I am in business I will never "even be comfortable" because there are so many people who are in need. SHARING with my social network so more can find out how to help.
Donated food, clothing, and hygiene items are all essential items to the homeless person. Yes, some are out to buy inessential items with the money they can get from kind-hearted people. But, many homeless have no other source of food or blankets. They won't go into shelters, or there is nowhere to go. If people didn't give blankets and food in Detroit, for example, people would starve, or turn to crime to get food.
Wow! I never thought I would get to the bottom of the comments of this well-read hub. Congratulations!
I love your heart. Not only do you manage a fabulous mission to help a homeless person, you go one step further to help many writing this article.
Personal safety is important. I have seen it go terribly awry while attempting to help.
It is so worthwhile to find homeless people whom are trying to do the right things and help them even with $1. I became amazed at what a homeless person was able to buy with just $1 once. I asked him to follow me into the grocery store and asked him what he needed the most and he said, "Food." He started calculating the things he could get with $1 and came up with 2 packs mac and cheese which he said he could heat over a fire in small amounts and 3 cans of potted meat. He told me that would be meals for 5 days if he did it right. I told him I planned to give him $10 in groceries and he basically bought 8 times that amount and a box of saltine crackers and a roll of scotts toilet tissue 1000 squares.
I was amazed! He told me I just fed him for over a month. He was later seen digging taco sauce out of the Taco Bell dumpster and I asked him what he was doing. It had only been a couple days and he stated potted meat is great with hot sauce and it keeps him warm too!
Wow, lots of information here. Great hub on an important topic! Voted up!
Wow, your followers. People do care and that is gratfying. I tweeted your hub.
Becky, great article with some good tips on how to help. Homelessness is an issue that we can't keep ignoring. We need to address it effectively and compassionately. Thanks.













































Vinaya Ghimire Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago
Homeless people is a social problem in developing world. Every morning when I walk on the streets of Kathmandu, I see lots of people mostly children and teenagers sleeping on footpath. Though I have not done something substantial for them, I have often donated them clothes and food.